Monday, December 30, 2013

Ready for another one yet?

2013. What a year. As my journey continues, I'm glad that I successfully closed one chapter and started another. My 4 years of hardwork paid off as I finished school. If someone told me 2 years ago that I would have finished college successfully and on time, I wouldn't have quite believed it. I managed to discover what sparked my interest. I'm so grateful for the lessons that I have learned at school. After graduation, I managed to get a (prestigious?) job that comfortably pays the bills in the city I always dreamed of living in. Being away from home and family for over 8 years now, I initially doubted my decision to live in New York. Relatives and family friends constantly tried to convince and remind me to come home. At times I felt the need to ignore them, but other times, it brought a sense of guilt and dilemma. I never really had the chance to be close to home and take care of my family. Yet again, opportunities await elsewhere. At the end of the day, I truly believe my decision to move to the Big Apple was well worth it. I caught up with old friends but also made new ones. Though often times I miss my family back at home a great deal, the opportunities and relationships that have come to me in the past few months made my year a wonderful one. 

As always, I'm so lucky to travel around the world. Cabo with college friends for spring break. It reminded me good friends can always have a good time together. A graduation trip to the Patagonia: Though the weather was reversed and it was chilly cold in Chile and Argentina, I managed to see and experience some of the world's most beautiful sights. From the glaciers of Patagonia to the Iguzu falls in Argentina/Brazil, it was some of the most amazing sites I have ever seen. I'm grateful to be able to enjoy these wonders with my family. Work also brought opportunities to gain new experiences. I got to visit Florida for a good two weeks and spent the first 3 months of my career in South Carolina. Though I inititally dreaded the idea to spend most of the 3 months down in Columbia, South Carolina, I'm glad that I did. I got to meet mu peers and colleagues and made some good friends while I was down there.

The year was also at times full of doubt and uncertainty. The last two months of 2013 had been a struggle. When I found out my mom was ill again, I was confused, nervous and upset. I wanted to back my bags and go home. I felt helpless and nervous.  I second guessed my decision once again of leaving home when I had the choice to stay a few months back. But the positivity my mom had made me so much more at ease. I believe that 2014 will bring healthier and better things for her and my family.

I know that there is still a lot uncertainty and doubts ahead but things will be ok and I strongly believe that everything will work out in the end. Thank you everyone who has supported me and my family through 2013. I'm forever grateful for all that you've done. 2013 has reminded me the importance of family and friendship. No matter that distance, I'll always love my family and friendship will stay strong.

May 2014 be even better than the last :) I'm ready for you!